Love That Must Be Kept Under Wraps ~ The Sweet Life Of J and E

The definition of Love is an emotion of strong affection and personal attachment. In philosophical context, love is a virtue representing all of human kindness, compassion, and affection. At times love has to be shadowed or hidden to preserve the beauty of it. At times, it's a necessary evil that needs to be done to preserve what the eye beholds. This story has been told many times. Some depicted in movies, novels, etc. So, we aren't immune to this topic. So of us has first hand experience and some may not.

I try to think of it as a game or a movie. I have done this numerous times to maintain the intgerity. So, Speaking from experience, trust is the number one factor that goes into it. If trust isn't at the forefront of your relationship, you are wasting your time. Agruements will occur, thus leading your relationship down the toilet. With that being said, your gameface needs to remain on your gameface.

Self control is the ability to control one's emotions, behavior and desires in order to obtain some reward later, and is the capacity of efficient management to the future. It can seem for love to take a backseat, but your mind must remain clear. It's only temporary until you get to the place you want to be in.

Turmoil is a state of extreme confusion or agitation. This is what your mind may go through while seeing the one you hold close to your heart being flirted with aggressively, people taking perverted jabs at her, etc. Life is beautiful and lord knows you want to punch that douche square in the face, but it's a life lesson of trust and self-control.

Why do I post this? Cause at times we do things out of the norm to get what we want. Whether it's a positive or negative outcome, we still roll through with it. When the doors are closed and we are behind them, life goes on the way it should. We know what we get into. We may discuss it for a long being before rolling it into action or we may just come up with it at a spur of the moment. What is done is done, but when all else fails . . . . . "love never fails."